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Month: December 2009

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2009/12/29 11 Comments

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I am curious how this will compare with my 2007 poll. Of course it is not at all scientific, purely for amusement.

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Indiana Adoption Search

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β€œTo be ignorant of what happened before you were born is to be ever a child” – Cicero

Helping a 1982 Indiana born Easter House adoptee.

Need Indiana adoption info, search angels, etc.

Please write me at bluestokking [at] gmail [dot] com.

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"When a mother is forced to choose between the child and the culture, there is something abhorrently cruel and unconsidered about that culture. A culture that requires harm to one's soul in order to follow the cultures prescriptions is a very sick culture indeed. This 'culture' can be the one a woman lives in, but more damning yet, it can be the one she carries around and complies with within her own mind....." -- Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes

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Adoption loss is the only trauma in the world where the victims are expected by the whole of society to be grateful - The Reverend Keith C. Griffith, MBE.

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