Lorraine Dusky’s husband, Anthony Brandt, has a great essay over at First Mother Forum. Â Highly recommend reading it.
“And one’s identity is a natural right. Fundamental to being human. What gives a government the right to mess with it? Nothing. The laws on adoption are an aberration, a disgrace, designed only to protect the adoptive parents from the loss of their illusion that they are the real and only parents, and the knowledge that their gain–some other woman’s child–is that woman’s tragedy” – Anthony Brandt