https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/ Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. - Voltaire Thu, 02 Jul 2015 14:18:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.2 https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/#comment-137096 Fri, 31 Oct 2014 16:26:50 +0000 https://writingmywrongs.com/?p=2924#comment-137096 Suz, I was reading WMW long before FB. Have thought of you often during your hiatus and wondering if you miss it at all. I think everyone misses you!

]]> https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/#comment-135736 Thu, 30 Oct 2014 16:26:00 +0000 https://writingmywrongs.com/?p=2924#comment-135736 Thank you for your comment AdoptionLies. Sorry it was held. Have been away from my blog for a few days.

]]> https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/#comment-132256 Tue, 28 Oct 2014 04:19:16 +0000 https://writingmywrongs.com/?p=2924#comment-132256 I think it would be very hard to like anyone who treated you with “nasty emails” and “vicious attacks” no matter how you are related. I hope your friend stops allowing herself to be abused. It is not healthy for her or her relinquished child to engage in a relationship in which emotional abuse exists. I do not think you have done anything “evil” by being a good listener because maybe that is what she needed at the time. But perhaps reminding her of her positive attributes, as well as the people who love her and are glad she is here will be a little bit of balm for her wounds.

]]> https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/#comment-131570 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 18:25:34 +0000 https://writingmywrongs.com/?p=2924#comment-131570 Thank you for your comment Denise. I know you can (or could relate). Hope you are well! Thanks for continued reading since my Facebook hiatus!

]]> https://writingmywrongs.com/2014/10/26/serious-question-what-if/#comment-131558 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 18:17:58 +0000 https://writingmywrongs.com/?p=2924#comment-131558 I’ve been there. It is one of the worst feelings in the world, to say or even think, “what if I don’t LIKE my son?” Although I love him. Ditto with thinking oneself a bad mother. Since I didn’t have more kids, my only parenting (or non-parenting) experience was with the son I surrendered to adoption, then reunited with. I don’t know if you have to respond. Perhaps just understanding is enough.

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