So let us discuss these caseworkers shall we? I have some questions. There are hobgoblins scampering around my mind making me a bit antsy.
What are these caseworkers (Easter House or other) afraid of?
As I have mentioned in the past and here on this blog, before I found my daughter I was contacted by a woman claiming to be my daughter. She was not. She was scamming me and attempting to get money out of me. I realized early in our email conversations that there was something fishy about her. At this point in my life I had learned to trust and follow my instincts. In doing so, I contacted Colleen Rogers, my Easter House caseworker.
I had hoped that Colleen would help me rule this person out as my daughter. If it wasnâ€™t my daughter, I understood Colleen would not tell me WHO my daughter was but I did expect her to tell me if the person was scamming me.
Colleen refused to answer any of my questions. Instead, she recited back to me in a weird distorted voice “your daughter went to a good familyâ€¦your daughter went to a good family”. Uh, okay, yeah, I get that but that is not what I am asking you. Can you tell me if THIS person, THIS family is the person she went to?
Silence except for the Stepford Wife version of “Your daughter went to a good family”. Your daughter went to a good family. Seriously, WTF?
The conversation ended. I had no further information.
In the years since I have snail mailed Colleen. Even sent her a copy of The Truth About The Kurtz Network of agencies.
In my best Phil Collins voice I offer to thatâ€¦”there is no reply at all”.Â By this time I had found my daughter. I knew her amended name. her adoptive parents names, address, even their social security number.
What harm would Colleen be doing by talking to me? Who is she protecting?
I have wondered if these folks were bound by some social worker code of ethics. Yet I have no proof they were licensed social workers. So with that, I ask againâ€¦
What are these caseworkers so afraid of?
What damage, and to whom, will they do if they sit down with a mother like me and discuss what happened to us years gone by?