I work with a guy that resembles my daughters father so strongly it routinely freaks me out beyond measure. I have tried and tried to find ways to manage the anxiety that he creates in me. I am failing. I may have to own up some day to him that he reminds me of someone from my past and the memory creates a strong emotional disturbance for me. He is a nice guy. Our teams work closely together yet I fear I am consciously (or subconsciously) avoiding or treating him oddly as a coping mechanism.
What else can I do? It is unnerving. Really. I need help with this.
Any suggestions, oh wise readers? My therapist friends?