I am a big fan of Professor Phil Zimbardo (check out his book The Lucifer Effect).
Thought of adoption as I watched this video of his about The Power of Time. How do you spend your time? Being past or present oriented?
How much of your present time are you spending thinking about your past? Meaning, how much time do you lose today with your loved ones thinking about your adoption experience? I am not judging anyone, nor suggesting an appropriate amount of time (I, for one, spent WAY too much time in today thinking about yesterday and what coulda, shoulda, woulda and while I did that, my sons grew in front of me, my marriage crumbled and more).
Interesting to think about. Well, for me, at least.
Click the image below to be taken to the YouTube video. Stop back if you have some thoughts/comments on it.